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Motivating Homeschoolers to Learn
There will be times during your homeschooling life where your child will not want to do lessons or undertake any form of study at all. Just as in school life, motivating students to learn can be a laborious task. Although there is no pressure in homeschooling to ‘knuckle down’ as one would expect in a traditional school setting, there comes a point where attention must turn to matters concerning learning and education.
If your child is struggling with wanting to learn, find out if there are any concerns. Has a bad school experience scared him and the thought of books and pens brings back painful memories? A period of unschooling, where a more unstructured approach is taken, may be needed. Is your child lonely? Look for other homeschooling families to socialize with. Is the homeschooling curriculum and method not working? Adapt it based on your child’s learning style and personality. Does your child have issues around homeschooling itself? Explain your reasons why you feel homeschooling is best and promise to address any issues within that.
For the older student, in addition to the above, it is essential that he or she thinks of the bigger picture. It would do the child no harm to picture where he sees himself in 5-10 years time. The better quality of life, standard of living and finance will come only as a result of motivating himself to learn and study.
Once it comes to the actual work itself teach your children some ways to make learning easier. First, set goals that are small and attainable. Break down a big project into bite sized pieces. Write the tasks down and check them off as they are completed. This will make them feel as if they are making progress.
Second, don’t get stressed. Remind them that they should ask you for help or look for help from other sources if they get stuck. Look up information on the internet, team up with other homeschooling families or friends who are doing the same or similar projects for inspiration and motivation.
Third, after a certain goal is met or task is completed, encourage them to reward themselves by taking a break or beginning something that they enjoy.
Fourth, keep away from distractions. Chose a quiet room in the house. However, some youngsters cannot concentrate if it is too silent, therefore some background music becomes necessary. As homeschoolers, they can have the freedom to choose where they learn. It could be outdoors, in the library, with another family or in a community setting. Just being in another environment can trigger learning.
Do you know someone who is working or involved in your area of interest? Make some inquiries. Homeschooling groups are excellent for making these kinds of connections. A more hands on approach may be just the thing to spark their desire to study again.

